How to Know if Your Spouse Cheats?
Talking and listening to your spouse is the best approach you can take if something tells you that they are cheating. There are however some ambiguous signs and other situations that you may refuse to believe what you’re hearing and seeing. So once and for all, have your misconceptions cleared out and see for yourself whether your husband or wife is cheating by checking out these signs.
Number 1. You found a condom in his wallet or car – this is automatically a red flag especially if you’re currently on pill or you found contraceptive pills in his cabinet when you’ve had vasectomy already. When you try to confront them regarding this matter, their response is often defensive and seems to evade the question.
Number 2. Obsessed about staying healthy and fit – your husband or wife might have enrolled on a gym, paid for a cosmetic surgery or has a makeover despite of your reassurance that you love them no matter what. Now if this is what’s happening for quite a while now, then the chance that they are cheating is fairly high as they want to look good not for you, but for someone else.
Number 3. They bought a new phone or has created a new social networking account or email – now this is already a takeaway because anyone who has been in a relationship can clearly tell that a separate account from any of the said is a definite sign that he or she is hiding something.
Number 4. Working late all time – if you hear this to your spouse constantly but has never seen their pay slip or hasn’t received extra cash every payday, then this can be an indication that they are in a secret relationship with someone.
Number 5. Being helpful with the laundry – this one is fairly common for men when it is time to check pockets before throwing it in the washing machine.
Number 6. Come back home with a different scent – if you’re a woman, better watch out for a red lipstick mark anywhere on his shirt especially around this collar, which is basically a classic sign that your spouse is cheating.
Number 7. Lose of intimacy – most of the time, a cheating wife or husband would not want to sleep with you. Psychologists say that this can be of two things, one is if they are guilty of being unfaithful or if he/she may like to have sex at all times. In the latter, this can be because that they want to release their sexual tension and imagine a different man or woman while doing it with you.